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Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Not just a gay cowboy movie

I saw Brokeback Mountain and like so many others have to say, it is so much more than a 'gay cowboy movie'. For anyone who's not been, it's worth seeing on the big screen.

But it's also hard to know what words to put with it, to adequately describe it. Brokeback Mountain is, I would say, an experience.

I cried for most of it - first for the love and then for the sadness - but then I cry in most moving films.

At its essence, for me, is a movie about love. For this reason, everyone's experience of the film is going to be different because our experiences of love are different.

I would rate Brokeback Mountain in my top 10 all time movies, I think, for the sheer power, simplicity, beauty and almost can I say brutality in that it does not protect the viewer - it takes you in and pulls you into the depths and then leaves you there...to deal with it...to think about it...to cry about it...to talk about it...to appreciate what you have...

And the only other thing I want to say about it is that it's both fantastic to see, as well as being a sad reflection on the priorities of many in our world that this movie has finally come to our screens. It's been a long time coming.

So, here's to all of you out there who have lost someone you love, couldn't be with the person you loved or have experienced discrimination for who you are. My heart is with you now.

5 Comments:

  • At 4:53 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    The film did not make me cry at all. The reason being that I am gay and having seen a multitude of gay/queer film over the years ranging from raunchy to comedy to drama I feel the only thing this film has been able to successfully achieve 'SO FAR' (and this is a GREAT thing) is awareness of gay lifestyle among the straight community. I saw this on opening day at Lincoln Centre NYC and teh audience was all over the place. Old, young, hipsters, republicans...very upper west side crowd (mixed bag). What I was amazed by was the two old cows who got up during the scene when the boys were getting into it in the tent and put here big fur coats on and walked out huffing and puffing! Hilarious! Even Ang Lee still has a long way to go (and future film makers) before they can make it into mainstream living rooms.

    Overall the audience received the film well. I kept watching the two 'very straight' mid 20 something guys next to me (sitting by their girlfriends).... I was waiting for a 'oh yuk' response during all the sensual/sexual moments. Straight men watching gay guys get it on usually brings on a huge 'yuk' response. NOPE!!! These guys were amazing...they sat there and watched and were so into learning and trying to understand...you could see their brains working overtime...taking the data (scenes/message) in - digesting the data - formatting it and coming out with their own analysis and opinion. It was really astonishing. In fact I felt myself doing more of an audience response analysis than watching the film itself. Hence why I went back 2 weeks later to sit and study the detail and underlying messages.
    Beth is right. This IS a story about love. In fact Heath Ledger was quoted in the NY times yesterday (short and sweet) saying "If you don't want to understand the message is about love between two people then don't see the film". Sure the film is offensive on the surface to some people however I think people are far too caught up on the gay cowboy imagery (the ultimate fantasy even to straight men I'm sure) and have not yet realised what a masterpiece Ang Lee has been able to put together. None the less the film has served a purpose...it has raised awareness and started people thinking. Thinking=ultimate change...and that's a good thing for all of us in the community.
    In this regard (i.e: not just another gay film) Ang Lee is many years ahead of his time.
    Oh and by the way - the film has yet to reach Ballarat (Australia)...this proves my points above.
    xox Andrew

     
  • At 6:59 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am a very straight guy in my 30s, and I have not seen this movie. The reason I have not seen it is because I'm not really into Gay Cowboy Movies. I think part of it is that the idea of seeing Gay Cowboys kissing and doing, um, "other things", would really make me think to myself, "Oh Yuk!". Yup. I'm sorry if some people do not agree with me, but that is honestly how I feel.

    hugs and kisses and a squeeze of the bum,
    Justin

    If I ever were to see this film, I think I would have to take a girl to go see it with me. A really attractive girl. I would want to make sure that anyone who saw me understood that I wasn't there to watch the Gay Cowboys doing their thing. I'd want people to think that I was only there because the girl wanted me to be there. But like I said, I really don't think I will see it because I'm not really into Gay Cowboys.

    What I really AM into is movies about love. Love stories really interest me. Not the complicated kind that make you think about things, but really just the kind where people are MAKING love, and where they really show what's going on. When I see a really good one of those films, I"ll often go back two weeks later, and sometimes get the DVD for repeated viewings on my home computer. Alone.

    So, to sumerize: I haven't seen the Gay Cowboy Movie; I don't like Gay Cowboy Movies because of how they make me feel (Yuk!); If I were to see the Gay Cowboy Movie, I'd want to see it with a really hot chick; What I really like is movies about love (ESPECIALLY about Making Love); I like to watch those movies at home; Alone.

    I'm sorry if anyone out there does not agree with me, but this is just how I feel.

    [***SARCASM ALERT***]

     
  • At 9:46 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thanks for your comments, you two. Firstly to Andrew, thanks for your honesty and perspective. It is a positive step in the right direction, but there are always going to be people out there for whom opening their minds to another perspective is just too confronting. Their loss I say. As for Justin (or should I say, Justine) - I know you are not REALLY a complete twat. I know you might seem like one from above email, but deep down you are one of the most inspiring people I know. Pity to miss the love scenes honey. You might learn something he he.

     
  • At 12:01 am, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    BAFTA update: This film won best Director, best actor in a supporting role and best adaptation screenplay. Glad I am not the only one who LOVED this film. I wonder if the Yanks will give it such glowing accolades...

     
  • At 12:01 am, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    PS Oh and best film. Hoorah!

     

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